Project's Progression (Part I)

After the visit to MARDI, I divided some jobs to the group members. As what I have planned, members who cannot give attributes much in the forum presentation will do more for the folio. I gave them the date line until last monday to finish it up. The group has 9 members excluded me. 6 out of 9 finish it well on time. I mean 'well'...1 out of 6 pass his job me earlier. 2 out of 6 finish up on time in the last minute. 3 gave some excuses. In this situation, should I be more straight to them? Scold them they should be punctual? Or just tolerate with them? Give them a chance?

While discussing for the forum presentation, some of them..wait, not some of them, 8 out of 10 didn't watch the movie that my group chose it on the last 3 weeks.I watched it last year from television. I still have some of the ideas from the movie. 1 of them got the VCD but lost it. Ok, I asked them to download from Youtube to watch it but they complained that connection is too slow. Fine..Then I asked them to buy the VCD or DVD to watch it..Nobody take action...Last week, only 1 of the group members bought the DVD..After the others heard that got DVD, they wanted to watch it...But the owner want to watch it first..So, until this week all of them watched already..In this situation, I felt that why some of them like to do in the last minute? Why they can't use the time well? Some of them even said that I'm too paranoid or too nervous about the project. The group members think that I want to be like this? I had the lesson on the last semester..Last minute do the things...Passed it up late..Got a 'GOOD' grade...

For today, tuesday....went to the lecturer's room with some of the group members to ask the lecturer to check the forum script...I felt that the lecturer feel bored with my presence already...I went to meet for 4 times already to ask about the project & the forum presentation...Until just now, 1 of the group members advice me that I shouldn't meet the lecturer in his room already...It will makes the lecturer to feel that I'm annoying...Yes, I know about it but you think I want? I don't want to meet him...Actually, I don't want to be the leader ..And for the morning meeting, some of them couldn't vome because they woke up late & not in the hostel...Fine...I don't want to be angry for that moment....Cool down...

After the class today, try to practice the forum presentation spontaneously...phew, luckily my group can present in 20 minutes...Tomorow wednesday, I thought I want to do another meeting to practice the presentation..but some of them are going to have test on this thursday...So, I just let them rest for a day~ Am I too good?

If I use my dictatorship style to control the group, it will make my friendship strain....If I'm to lenient, they cross my head...not respect me as a leader of the group...didn't take my words seriously...Become a leader is not easy...

But, some of the group members helped me well..I appreaciate it...Thanks...I hope my group project & forum presentation can finish on time & successfully...