Tuesday, March 02, 2010

Selfish~

Selfish : thinking first of one's own interests, needs, etc without concern for others; not sharing what one has with others.
(Taken from the Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary)

After I study in my university for almost 2 years, now I only know that the real world of human. I agreed with one of my coursemate who posted this status on facebook: 'There is no one willing to give you everything without any return besides your parents.' Now I only realized that human are really selfish. Not selfish, is Extraordinary selfish~ I can see the true colours of human attitude. During my time in the school and college, I haven't realize it. Probably I'm still naive at that time. The place that I study now changed me a lot. I need to be cautious with the people around me. I met those who are selfish & want to harm other people. So bad. Being selfish is already bad, but selfish & harm other people is really bad. I understand why other people want to be selfish. They want to keep the information that they got privately or it's due to their attitude, they don't like to share. They feel that 'Share is Caring' is a stupid move. But if being selfish & harm other people, for me, it is like a sin. For now, I think I need to be selfish for sometime. I cannot be so helpful anymore. I don't want to become somebody's puppet. But I will help those who helped me before and appreciate their help and I wouldn't help those who backstab or harm me anymore. I only give a chance to a person. Selfish~