Wesak Day 2010

I would like to take this opportunity to wish all of my friends who are Buddhist a Happy Wesak Day! We, as a human on this Earth need to have a compassion to care each other so that the Earth will maintain in peace. May you all have a harmony, happy and peaceful Wesak Day~

Am I good leader?

I just chatted with a senior about how to become a leader. He advised me about how to become a leader & to communicate with the subordinates well although he told me that he just share his idea. But I still treated it as an advice.

Am I a good leader? I become a group or mass leader a lot of time since when I was standard 2 or 8 years old, I became a class monitor. When I was in secondary school, I think I can say that I am 'gila kuasa' to become a leader. I joined a lot of clubs and grabbed some leader post. Hahaha.. Until now, I still volunteer myself or selected by my friends to become a leader in my university. It can say that I got some experiences to be a leader. Last time, I thought that I got the experiences and will be a good leader in the future. But I was wrong. I am not a good leader yet. Why I said so because I faced the real challenges when I become the group leader for my projects in my university. Not only the projects, but also in the club/society that I joined.

I can feel the 'real' pressure when I lead my friends or subordinates. I received a lot of problems from big to small. Some problems can be solved, some problems I can't solve it. It is hard to become a good leader & respected by your friends. I almost want to resign & run away from it but I can't. Run away is not a solution. It is my responsibility to lead the group. I must go on. Thanks to my friends who advised me & one of the quotes that I like most, 'Pain is Pleasure'. This is a road that will train me a good leader, although I haven't reach yet.

There are a lot of ways to become a good leader but I won't write it on here. I just want to write that do not complain if you are in a group. Try to solve the problems. A lot of people think that become a good leader is hard & try to avoid to become a leader, if can. For me, we should try to become a leader & try to be a good leader so that this experiences will guide us during our work time or other things.

Am I a good leader? I think I'm not a good leader yet. I still have a long way to go~

P/S: It just a craps from me.. Nothing to write during this holiday~ hahaha~

Mother's Day 2010

Today is the Sunday for the second week of May 2010. I would like to take this opportunity to wish my mommy a Happy Mother's Day. I hope she will stay healthy & always look happy. To all of my friends, I hope you will celebrate with your mother not only for today but celebrate with her on everyday. Appreciate what your mother done for us. :D

Happy Mother's Day!

Labour Day 2010~

First, I would like to wish all of my friends who are working, a Happy Labour Day! I hope all of you can rest well during this weekend. And to those who are still on holiday, Happy holiday~

1 month holiday gone. After the trip, I felt so empty. I missed that place so much. I wished I can stay there forever. No need to think about my life in the city. Unfortunately, I need to come back to the reality. I cannot run away from it. Stayed at the home all the while. I felt so boring. Everyday online, watch tv, eat and lastly, sleep. I don't dare to weigh my body now. I still don't have the courage to do it so because I know that my weight is increasing. I wait until the new semester open, then I will weigh my body again. At that time, my weight sure decrease. Hahaha~

About my last 4th semester final exam results. I'm quite surprised that I manage to achieved my targets. SOme of my coursemates got into the Dean List. I would like to congratulate them, their hard works pays for it. Although this is 1 of my best pointers among the other results, but I think this is not a good news yet. The real test is coming soon. The following years will be my crucial time. I need to add more effort than last time. Sleep well~ Eat well~ Play hard~ Study Smart~

A lot of my friends & relatives were shocked that I got 3 months break. They asked me that am I going to find a part time job to work~ Haha~ I said no~ I told them that I want to fully rest for my last 3 months of holiday. Last year, I couldn't do so because I took a subject for my special semester. Next year, I will going for industrial training. Next 2 years, I will graduating & start to work already. I hope my statement will not make the others jealous.

This few weeks, I think I comment/spam too much on my friends' facebook post. Haha~ Last time I'm not used to be like this. Maybe I'm too free or want to be a busybody guy or better words in chinese: '38'.. Haha~ But once the holidays end, I think I will get back to my normal life.Still got a 1 and a half month for my holiday. I don't have any plans to do except maybe have a few gatherings with my old friends. I hope it will go on.

Yesterday, I saw an incident which was happened at the Batu Tiga Tol~ Human are selfish. There were 2 cars, white & grey, the owners of this 2 cars were fighting each other to get into the Touch n Go lane. In the end, both cars clashed each other. White owner used his palm to hit the grey car. Then the grey owner which was a women showed her finger middle to the white owner. Due to anger, the white owner throw a bottle to the grey car. I was just back of these 2 cars. I don't dare to drive closer to them. Scared that my mum's car will be 1 of the victim. Hahaha..I just want to share this to the readers. Why we need to be so selfish on the road? Why there are so many road bullies on the road. why can't we be patience while we are driving. Think about it~

Anyway~ I don't care too much already~ hahaha~ That's all for me on this post. I want to enjoy my holiday well~ haha~ Adios~