365 Nights of Sex~

When I looked at the main page of StarTwo today, I saw a column: 365 Nights of Sex...Wow...Then I turned the newspaper to page 6....It's about an author's marriage & the book: 365 Nights, Memoirs of Intimacy...The author gave a special gift to her husband 40th birthday...She was going to give him the gift of sex for 365 nights...Wow...Unbelievable...Amazing...

In my opinion, there are some pros & cons about the gift...I felt that if we are going to have sex every nights, probably we can stop our partners having affairs...This will strengthening the relationship...

But, if your partners don't have the feel to do it & do it anyway, this attitude will cause no good for the relationship...The partners will felt bored about it & makes the relationship strain...

Actually, it depends on the couples...Every couples have their own feel...Probably having sex for every nights will makes them happy...Probably having sex for every nights will makes them bored or tired...

But in Malaysia, people are not keen to sex due to workloads, pressure, etc...Not like the westerners, more open...

The author concludes with some advice for the couples: "However often you are doing it, double it. And six months from now, double it again. It's proof that you're here, alive and very together." Haha...what a 'good' advice...

p/s: This is just an opinion and I hope that the reader(s) who read this blog, please don't follow the steps if you feel unpleasant with it and I strongly agree that sex education should be teach in the school to avoid any bad cases to happen...

Probably I'm going to read this book in the bookshop if I got time~

29th of April 2009~BM Presentation

Today is my first BM individual presentation since I entered Uniten...Almost 4 years I didn't use BM to do my presentation...I scared I couldn't speak well...When I was in secondary school, I used to active & participate alot of BM activities...And the most funniest thing was, my BM teacher assigned me to act as 'Sultan' for a drama performance...haha...am I look like a Malay? Somemore, 1 of my classmate acted as my 'Permaisuri'...If you are my secondary schoolmates, you should know who she was...haha...I still miss the drama performance...About the individual presentation...every students need to find a product & promote it...First, I chose to promote the MAS Stimulus Packages but due to less information about it, I changed it to promote the Ambi Pur Air Refreshener...But, I felt that I have no idea how to promote that thing...So...I changed my mind again...Yah...last minute...I changed my mind yesterday...I used Dettol as my product to promote...The marks for the individual presentation is 15 marks out of the 60 carry marks...Haiz, so many...somemore, I'm the only guy in my team need to present it...The lecturer chose 15 out of 100 students as the first batch to present it today...How 'lucky' am I.....Only 2 chinese presented only...I felt nervous...I felt my heartbeat too fast...Actually I hate to do presentation....Waited patiencely & nervous...saw the other students present their product...some good, some bad...At 3pm sharp...the lecturer called my name...OH~...my turn already...when I walked to the front of the class, I felt my legs were shaking...I started my presentation with my loud voice...almost frightened all of the students....

"Selamat Sejahtera! Saya, Tan Ching Fai akan mempromosikan satu produk yang sangat terkenal dan tidak terasing di negara kita, Malaysia iaitu Dettol Antiseptik Cecair!"

All of the students in the class clapped their hands...Wow...I'm so surprised....Then I continued to blek here & there...Finally, I done my presentation....phew...one of my classmate told me that I done well...But, I felt that my BM is getting worst...Alot of grammar mistakes...The lecturer said that my voice is quite loud(yaya...my voice like a dinosaur,so loud until the next building can hear it)...but it's good because my voice attracted all of the audience...I hope I can get good marks for it...Now, still got 2 main tasks, Forum & Projek....haiz...group work...I haven't start my job yet...I don't know how to assign them to do their works...I hope I will settle it as soon as possible....

The Value of Friends

Just now, I read an article from a newspaper...The writer wrote about the importance of friends in our lives...Friends have often proven to be more valuable than family & partners because they care & share in our joy & pain...We spent our time outside our home with friends...Friends are vital because they are one of the most reliable sources of hapiness, joy, support and intellectual development...But, sometimes we may get hurt deeply or betrayed by friends & find it difficult to trust them anymore...I'm totally agree with this words...Best friends are those you can count on when you are in difficulty even though you have not met for some time...On the other hand, best friends should understand the friend well,vice versa...Both sides should trust each other and no lies between them and it is a life long process...

There are some of the tips to maintain the friendships:

1) Be reliable and a good listener ( yah...I'm reliable and a good listener)

2) Be honest and trustworthy ( sometimes I lie for good & bad)

3) Smile & make eye contact during a conversation (haha...see the situation...if lame conversation...i will look elsewhere...)

4) Forgive each other as mistakes are bound to happen (see the situation...I'm a revengeful guy...)

5) Do not hold grudges as they can ruin friendships (???)

6) Have no conditions or strings attached in your friendship (yup...shouldn't have conditions)

7) Invest time & energy in your friendship & make it a commitment ( wah....if really do it, I'm must be a good friend but I think all wouldn't do this, is it?)

8) Show interest in the well-being of your friend and offer companionship (hmm....see my mood...)

9) Share challenges and joy and offer a shoulder to lean on when life is difficult (yup, share it...but I'm not going to offer my shoulder to lean...lol)

Life is incomplete without friends~

It is true....

22nd of April 2009

What a boring day....woke up too early...thanks to my new roommate's alarm clock...need my help to switched off it...the morning was so hot...the rays of the Sun so strong...my room became a sauna room...day-dreaming...wondering why should I take special semester...so bored...just need to attend a class for a day...watched Blade in the room...watched it before...It's quite disgusting...hahaha...I preffered the part 3...more blood...yummy...bathed in a 'good' bathroom...the hole on the floor stucked already...the water is difficult to run down...almost to get flood in the bathroom...waited Y for so long....waited until 1.10pm, and the class starts at 2pm...haven't take the lunch yet...haiz...Actually I hate Y's attitude...does not appreciate the time...But what to do...haiz...went into the class at 1.55pm...need to be in the class earlier than the lecturer...if not, couldn't get full marks for the attendance...haiz....need to study Bahasa Melayu Korporat...22nd was the second day of the class...need to do group forming...and as 'their' plan...They choose me as the leader....'Pai ngo seong toi'...They planned it since the last semester...I told them that I don't want to become the leader because I want to let the other to become...But they insist it...OK....Fine...and I sweared it...I'm not going to be 'cincai' like last semester Moral subject...Caused me to get a 'good' grade...I'll make sure everyone will be responsible with their works & punctual to finish their works...I'm not going to listen any excuses espeically from Y...haiz...probably I'm cruel...But I hope that this will help us to get a real good grade....the class ended at 4pm...the day was so hot...went to SCP...watched them to play snooker...One of them played quite well...then played bowling...my bowling was so terrible...long time didn't play...always 'masuk longkang'...dinner at a steambot restaurant to celebrate...as I mentioned earlier...the day was so hot...still want to eat steambot...lol...ate alot of food...some good, some bad...looked at them spy on different girls & women...It seems like...haiz...went to Mines...they bought some 'drinks'...they want to change the house to become a club...Reached back to hostel around 10.05pm...Jogged around the university alone...So scared...So quiet...Need to train again...need to regain my stamina...Online...watched the Olympic opening ceremony...so lame...until 1am, as they planned...they just drank it...but don't have any club environment...I didn't drink it...Actually I hate to drink it...I don't like that kind of drunk situation...how good am I...sleep...

20th of April 2009

woke up so early..couldn't sleep well for the whole night...felt the body temperature increased...online...logged in the registration website at 8.15am...waiting for the add & drop session....sharp at 8.30am...still cannot add it...the website was still upgrading...at 8.40am...can register...the class got 60 places...but still got 9 places left...registered it fast...phew...luckily can registered it...but 2 of my coursemates couldn't register...all classes full already...fetched mum to Mandarina in KL...reached Uniten around 11.45am...put all my things in the hostel...settle all the finance things...it took me almost 2 hours to settle all that things....went back to hostel...cleaned up my room...my roommate haven't come back...slept for a while...went to Mandarina again to return the car...felt I got fever...haiz....went to Kampung Pandan for a wedding dinner...reached there around 7pm...The day still bright...alamak...the table that I'm going to use was just next to the main table, the bride & groom table...so near...somemore, i'm not their relative......the table that I used is for the bride's god mother & my mum was the god mother's best friend....so...terpaksa lo...so bored...the dinner start at 9pm...haiz...malaysian are not punctual...said start at 7.30pm, but....haiz....speechless...finish ate at 10.50pm...so tired...didn't ate too much...reached back to Uniten around 11.20pm...housemates were playind DOTA....so noisy...waited until 2am to online...housemates helped me to tunnelling the LAN connection....so tired...slept at 3am...

16th, 17th & 18th of April 2009

16th~Laptop

Like the other days...bored...In the afternoon, went to M to buy a new laptop...yah...feel weird? why didnt buy a new laptop at PC Fair? Bought a new DELL laptop...Actually it's not the first choice. But due to finance, bought the DELL first...Hope can use it for another 5 years... so many people although it's a weekday...ate lunch & dinner at 3pm...went back to SA...charged the laptop...it's too new...not familiar with it...try to use it slowly...

17th~SW

Become the bodyguard again~ so bored...went to SW for the third time in two weeks...so many people especially the students who are just finished their classes...some of them with friends...some of them with their loves one...And, ?I hate those who are wearing school uniforms & dating at the same time...It's too ugly...probably I'm a conservative thinker...too ' kolot' ~
walk there alone while they are shopping...then met them again...went to jewellery shop...one of them need to buy a necklace as a wedding present...In the evening, went to KLIA for the third time again in two weeks by using the Maju Expressway...First time to use it...It's quite high...Almost as high as the IMU buildings...fetch S...suddenly one of the classmate called...RESULT is out already....I'm SHOCKED! When reached back, hasty to take the laptop...online...checked my results...
Oh~ Dissatisfied and Speechless...I don't know what to say...alot of my classmates ask about my results...I don't have the mood to tell them & ask about their results for now or forever...no mood to eat my late dinner already...solemn mood~

18th~Hot day

woke up early...watched the old drama series...went to BK to meet ex-housemates TBR @ secondary schoolmates...waited for them...almost an hour...one of them still the same & the other one changes alot...Two couldnt come due to some reasons...ate at a quite expensive japanese restaurant...atmospher quite ok...sorethroat...going to have mild sick....went to cinema...suddenly someone touched my shoulder...It was taekwondomates...habis...he thought I'm dating...watched a comedy movie, Mall Cop...quite funny...almost everyone in the theatre hall laughed so loud...actually quite annoyed...gave 6 out of 10 rate for the movie...the cinema so cold...forget to bring my sweater...bought something at the supermarket...went back...sorethroat is getting worst...the day is so hot...watched television...and now online....probably later, pack my things for the special semester..

One more day left before the special semester starts...
Hope everything will be fine~

p/s: Please do not ask about my results...I'm not going to answer that question...

Odi et amo~

1 week holiday wasted~

One week past after the final exams...this holiday makes me more lazy~
Felt that I'm useless...Lazy to find part time jobs...
Watch television everyday~
Almost online everyday~
Sleep more than enough~
Didn't do any exercise~
Went out four times in four days seperately...Two times for leisure and two times for tasks...
Only watched a movie although got three good movies...
Desperately wait for the exam result~ don't know when it will release...

Just received an email from a lecturer...advice the students to work hard & do some revision during the holiday...I felt bad...I haven't start yet~

No friends are available to accompany me to 'lepak'....Some of them are studying, preparing for exams, working, etc...Lazy to ask them out...Lazy Lazy Lazy~

When study, want the holiday...
When holiday, want to study...

Be a human is not easy~

One week wasted...
Got another one week left before the special semester start...
Try to use this week well..
Hope that everything will run smoothly~

Need to work hard & smart~

CANNOT Be LAZY already!!!